15 0 4 In modern society, however, it is no use expecting children to adhere to the traditional "respect for elders" model. Children will grow up to become independent. Parents should urge their children to keep to their path and pursue their careers, especially when they are in their 20s. One of these days, it will occur to the children that they owe everything they have to their parents. After they become adults, they will think they ought to have spent more time with their parents. And it will come home to the parents that they did not need to force their children to show them respect, but that it came naturally. (注) Confucianism 「儒教」